Embracing Solitude

The Unexpected Joys of Being Single in College

Breakups are often painted as periods of despair, marked by ice cream binges and tear-streaked pillows. But what if they also open doors to self-discovery and personal growth?

In her candid reflection in a recent Mustang News OpEd, Larena Tannert shares how ending a relationship led her to unexpected clarity. Freed from the constant check-ins and compromises of a partnership, she found herself immersed in uninterrupted study sessions, spontaneous family visits, and the simple pleasure of dining alone with a good book. These moments weren't just about being alone—they were about reconnecting with herself.

College is a time of exploration, not just academically, but personally. Being single can offer the space to understand one's desires, set personal goals, and build resilience. It's an opportunity to prioritize self-care, forge deeper friendships, and cultivate independence.

However, navigating this path isn't always straightforward. Feelings of loneliness or uncertainty can arise. Therapy can be a valuable companion in this journey, providing a safe space to explore emotions, set intentions, and develop coping strategies. It's not about fixing oneself, but about understanding and nurturing one's inner world.

If you're finding yourself at a crossroads or simply wish to delve deeper into self-understanding, consider reaching out. As a therapist, I'm here to support you in embracing your journey, with all its challenges and triumphs. Together, we can explore the richness of solitude and the strength that comes from within.